Marital/Relational Challenges

Question: My partner of (x) years suddenly asked for separation. I am left blindsided. We are working on our relationship through individual and marital counselling. However, he believes the only way he can heal is on his own, after separation/divorce. He has a history of unresolved trauma. Answer: As a Couples Therapist, I’ve seen thisContinueContinue reading “Marital/Relational Challenges”

Are you Fearful in Relationships?

When we fill our void with someone, we temporarily fill our wounds with them and become dependent on them. We begin “needing” them. This person in our life is now needed for survival. That is a heavy burden and a lot of pressure for that person. Sometimes, we know this is a band-aid for ourContinueContinue reading “Are you Fearful in Relationships?”